I cried had my baby 3 weeks early because of stress. The father of this child leaves us to follow his family's decision. I feel really sorry for you kiddo. And I have a whole community to face once the news breaks that there's no baby daddy. He told me that he would take the baby when it was born.
Why not make your own post and tell your story. It really helped and gave me a very level head about the whole situation, and we were able to make the correct decision for us. I thought at the time forget what he does'nt have his heart is good never again will I ever lower my standards or settle for a man like him I guess there is a first time for eveything. I was 7 months pregnant and he wanted to hang out with friends. I ended up having a miscarrage with one of the twins. If you need to talk to anyone, feel free to message me.
I went from churches to churches I met an nigearian pastor in Holland cuz I am from Europe he told me to break a bottle with our two names in it. I just felt disgusted with him, and just kicked him out of my house, and when he put his foot in between the door, i just told him I'd call the police on him. In the first 3 months fathers or any other relatives are completely unnoticed by you or the baby. You take the focus off the person who clearly needs support. When he drinks he always gets drunk.
I don't love him anymore but still feel so sorry for myself and my baby. The one person I thought would be there. A few days later i had a severe bleeding. He said he won't help me with anything such as buying medications, paying for the ultrasound or blood tests. Cuz when you do, your taking care of her too. The only possible soluation is for the one trying to do the controlling to set that person free, or else the relationship will be totally destroyed.
Ended it with me basically blaming it on me. Same as what you've experienced the guy love this child first but his family does want this to be aborted. Perhaps you did not take it according to instructions. My ex was my very first boyfriend, first sexual experiences, first time away from home and was also my only friend. Anyhow, I showed him the sonogram pics. Sad thing is I know he's great with kids, as in having fun with them, not a great influence but all kids love him.
I'm in peace, knowing I'm doing the good thing. This is probably the most painful point in your life so far and my heart goes out to you. When I have my baby I will seek a job. I said o know u don't like being tied down. It sounds like you want him still or you would just cut your losses so I suggest telling him that when he grows up and can be a man that you will be there and willing to try to work things out but until then you won't put up with it. Cause at the end of the day, there really is not a right or a wrong decision, it's yours and you must make yourself happy in this life.
I refused and he broke up with me. He told me that he wanted me to get an abortion. I can't take the stress anymore. He said he is never coming back so I asked when he is getting his stuff. You have to understand that guys have feelings too.
I know I have to move on and go forward, but how do I do that? Only God can help me through this. But get this he texts me everyday good morning and etc. I'm the one that didn't want to let go despite the cheating. Maybe from there he could see clearly how he feels about you Yeah I know I need to start focusing on the pregnancy, its just that he only left a few days ago and its still a bit raw and all consuming. If you think he should be allowed in babys life then make sure he pays child support it will help. That's why we go through this and guys check out to do whatever.
I am about to have a miscarridge because he wont talk to me and im totallly stressed out. I believe our situations make us stronger and more wise. These are few and far between. Tell him he can't go on texting you everyday and play with your emotions. I figured things were different with us. When I found out I left him he begged me back I thought he was sincer so I went back to him and thought I could trust him I forgave him but never forgot and besides he still had to talk to his daughter's mother because they had a daughter together I did'nt trust it so I brought it up to him all the time. He said he has rights as far as im concerned he hasnt.