Just be aware that sometimes her friends may not know and she may not even have a reason in the first place. And more than everything, you will learn something new about yourself and how to overcome neediness. We can try to avoid it in the future. I deal with people, friends, chicks who flake on each other all the time. I need to meet up with him right away and make it up to him. Start getting on with your life without her and let her find out about it. You know, I'm with you on the games man, it is tiring to actively practice gaming.
I have had girls stand me up, be out of touch for the evening, and circle back with some pretty good excuses a day later and then want to meet up. Sometimes girls flake because you offered to take her out on a boat in Venice on night one. No one wants to feel guilt tripped into anything, especially a date, and reacting in a hostile emotional way will always hurt you in the long run. Was actually surprised because she had ignored me for 3 days sometime before us meeting so i never imagined we would eventually meet. That usually worked on girls I was sleeping with and a few that were on the fence.
Game is not just about having sex. And hurts more when you think you can come back so casually. Not only will doing this give her sometime to cheer up, but this will also give you some time to reflect on the relationship. If she is, then she will arrive at a meet up and be open to getting back with you. Who feels the need to control a woman.
Especially after a very nice first date. She still wants the thrill of the chase. Here's the thing dude, as you know - flaking sucks. Too much thinking, planning, etc… And it usually only leads to more game playing. Honestly it sounds like you are going to take her on some weird adverture for a 2-3rd date? I took it as a huge sign they were not the type of women I wanted in my life. Sometimes you just want a straight answer and you may never get one.
He chooses to disappear or avoid the problem at hand instead of dealing with it in a mature adult way. Or to be more honest, I just forget about her. It's not fun if your not a challenge. You guys had nothing in common and the date was filled with awkward pauses. But what if I really wanted to meet this girl that just stood me up? I agreed with him, and sent her a text late this afternoon asking her to come for dinner next week. But people have their own threshold for dealing with chicks nonsense.
If any of you dudes get to read this article, be grateful. Flaky women are only for your penis. The problem with playing games is you never know if its you they like, or if they enjoy playing games. Matt Cook knows this all too well. At one point in my life I was actually dating over a dozen women while still trying to add more into my stable.
And just completely forget about her. Are you worth having sex with? It goes great, you are both attracted to each other and you can see her in your bed in five days. Almost like they feel it that they will lose more than they would get, and they are right. Should I immediately make some comment? I've made commitments with them and then subsequently turned down better or more-ideal offers simply because of the previous obligation. It takes some serious effort to ignore someone.
On the flip side, she introduced me to her mother, some of her friends also. I guess I´ll have to use my creativity to my advantage then. If interest was lost that quickly at least say something. A gal, actually one that I know in a professional manner, and I seemed to hit it off. Deleting her contact information is an emotional reaction because you feel rejected. They know they can take me at my word.