Â Have you tried Relate or any other marriage counselling? Thus is why I started the Unless You Care project. A lot of damage was done, by both of us. To think that is devastating, considering that my anxiety is the only culprit. This helps to clear my mind so I can go back to the issue at hand and maybe handle it a bit better. I was a husband, a guest speaker, and our home's sole provider. From one person going through depression to another, I hope you feel better. Suddenly everything crumbles when he went back to the uk, those happy moments put a toll on him, it made it even more difficult for him to be so far from me and he started wondering about our future, whether we could be together as in marriage.
And the fact of him constantly watch porn can make you feel even more insecure. The Wellbutrin made my drive crash and burn too. I really hope your child is not suffering with all that as well, because when I was young I got traumatized by my father's agressive behaviour and this became later one of the causes of my depression and anxiety today, perfectionism and fear of things to go wrong, lack of confidence, etc. Â It is much better to be alone than with a partner like this and your son will be happier. Surely you should be there to support them but by doing that isnt it possible to move forward with proffessionals.
I felt my husband and son would be better without me. We all have our limits but people with anxiety are just more aware of theirs. I'm sorry that you don't have the support and the help you need. My husband and I married at 19. In 9 months I have eliminated all medications and have never been healthier. We have been married almost 7 months. I know what my heart wants and what my gut is telling me but then those horrible negative thoughts creep themselves in and take over and its like I have no control.
I am sorry you get the brunt of my anger on cloudy days. For being my other constant companion. If you aren't getting it, and continue to not get it, you might want to look elsewhere. I hope you will keep sifting thru til you find these. I ended getting back on a higher dosage of anti-depressants.
I may not have any issues for weeks or even months. He is taking medication for depression. That makes them pretty awesome to be with. I cried and said I wanted to die. Not trying to get all involved in your life or anything. Alley, this breaks my heart reading this. He now takes meds of his own for his health issues and has a better understanding of my issues.
The cool thing is when you start to make this a habit you focus on the good in life and discover there is more good than bad. My husband likes to try to lighten the mood but given we are newly married it is usually no where near the right time in my mind. I must never let myself forget that because it counted for a lot and always will. Kris i am so sorry to hear that. You are amazing and a perfect addition to my depression fighting team.
The weather really effects my feelings and I do not know why! It literally gave me my life back. I truly believe the opposite of passion is depression. I rely on God to give me strength to help him. There are more and more awareness campaigns these days. But on reading the rest of your post I am horrified.
Know that they are grateful — so grateful — for everything you do. We lost the capacity for connection and found ourselves lonely and hopeless. I struggle with this whenever I fall into a depressive episode, as I feel inherently weak and pathetic for not being able to pull myself out of my pain — even if it means simply — with the type of mind control they practice, or even mindfulness or attention to my thoughts. This was a bad decision on my part. I seriously had no idea that might be part of the disease. Since I was arrested I can't get a job that requires responsibility and trust.
When I read this post I was overcome with emotion , the struggle to accept yourself the inability to look beyond the dark clouds , the nagging sensation that you are worthless and will never amount to nothing is all there. You have to see anxiety as the problem, not your spouse, and be with them in the midst of their struggle. Had to quit the job he worked so hard to get, health totally down the drain. I actively listen to my partner diagnosed with anxiety as a child when they seem anxious or frustrated. A couple weeks after his surgery I started feeling anxious about everything then the depression hit me.
When we start counseling it is often awkward, but we have to continue with it for it to work. But it can get better and manageable. She and my husband decided that I should move out so they set me up and said I hit him. It might even help your husband to learn that it is very healthy to express your feelings. I need it to help other people. How do you explain a panic attack which is completely irrational to a person who has never experienced it? Just stop thinking about them, those crazy big pink babes. Do what is best for you and your child.