My friends and I have all been fingered my our boyfriends and we all love it! I know fingering cannot lead to pregnancy. . But like I said, if you're planning on staying with your boyfriend because you love him and aren't going to cheat on him anymore then don't tell him but don't do it again. If his penis is out your vagina is covered and when he fingers you his penis is covered, got it? I think it will open up the conversation and it would be easier to talk about the actually physics you now have to 'deal' with. Generally it just feels good to have something inside of you if you are turned on. Thats the best thing you can do. I look back to some of my previous sexcapades from when I was in my early 20s and it is embarrassing compared to my technique now.
Yes to all those questions and here's even a tip for the future, you don't even have to ask. There would be a real risk of mistakes resulting in pregnancy. Like others have already stated, you have no reason to feel embarrassed. When i was sixteen i let my best friends boyfriend finger me in the movie theater while she sat right by him and didnt even realize what was going on. It's likely that hell get a bit more bold, and you'll get a bit more confident and curious over time, and things can happen fast. I want to have a normal sexual relationship but I just don't enjoy what I've experienced so far.
When it comes to what you have been doing together generally it's older teens and adults engaging in this. Because regardless of how, good, bad, or awkward it is, it shouldn't matter once you know that they are the right person. I lost mine at 13 and I wish I'd had the common sense to wait until I was older and I respected myself and my body more. But i have to admit it was wrong what you did and yes you should tell your boyfriend, because if he fingered a girl without you knowing it wouldn't you want to know? We haven't had actual sexual intercourse yet but last night he fingered me and ate me out for the first time. I feel like I made him kind of irritated because he was really surprised at my reaction.
I had my last period on 10th january. It's also not fair to get your friend in a position where she could get in big shit for covering for you. I just stood up and went home. A few weeks later we were all under a blanket watching a film and he held my hand. We were at a night club and he started fingering me behind a wall so no one could see us.
I kind of freaked out and pulled away because I wasn't expecting it to hurt that bad. Sex should be about the intimacy and developing that deeper connection with someone. Ok so I'm 13 turning 14 in December and my bf is 16, 17 in November. The main thing I feel from it is my G-Spot. If you tell him now, it's possible he'll forgive you, but it will take time for him to trust you again.
Just be sure to go slowly and gently. If they have maybe you could ask them about it. And if you're doing it with your boyfriend use lube too! Need help with your relationship? You can tell him, I Mean, it'd be the right thing to do but he'll most likely be real mad and upset also, and it might take a while for him to trust you again. Never do something you feel uncomfortable. That will probably end things for sure.
But I never went in my hole yet. You don't necessarily need to go down on him the first time he gives you pleasure but might want to do something to him one of the next couple times, whether it's a bj or handjob. He deserves to know what you did, and if he ever found out from his friend then you would have to admit to it then, and also to having lied to him about it. Quote: my boyfriend fingered me soo hard i was like holding him mad tight and it hurt and then after while he said there was blood and after he was done fingering me. Be sure it's suitable for condoms too because some lubricants will make the condoms unreliable.
The first time I was in pain too and I was just very tight and it needed some stretching. I quietly tell him to stop but he does not listen. My boyfriend is going to finger me, I want to know how do I behave during the session, any suggestions would be helpful? I'm not telling you to break up with him. Be yourself and tell him what spots hurt and what spots don't. But otherwise just try with one finger, than two and so on. How do you know he won't force you to do those things? But lube is great for every aspect in your sex life. He used to get off on exhibitionism which I mostly didn't have a problem with, unless it was in front of or within earshot of family.
So I just shake my head, because I wanted him to before, and I wanted to know how it feels. I think you would, youre just going to have to suffer the consequences and buck up and tell the truth. Should I keep it quiet or should I tell him? It's not going to be a turn off for a guy if something was hurting you. I was gripping him and the bed really tight. If you're not used to being penetrated by anything, then yes, the stretch will not be nice. I don't know your boyfriend, but I know teenage guys and from what you wrote, it sounds like he has the upper hand in the relationship.
Don't ever make yourself do stuff sexually that you don't like or want to, to try and make someone else happy. A male reader, , writes 16 February 2009 : I think that if you did that and you know it was wrong, both of you know, then you should tell him. When he is doing it tell him the truth if something feels good let him know if something hurts or you just dont like it let him know, he should understand and communication is key. This is not to take as advice! I've told him to stop and he does it reluctantly. Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Otherwise, I wouldn't worry too much about it. I have a boyfriend of about 3 months who is a little older than me.