Tell her you care and are asking because you care. I don't understand it at all and any advice would be highly appreciated! Ok is not that i dont like them its that sometimes they interrupt our thing. Already this spells trouble to my mind, do you really think that you're old enough for this much commitment? It takes four hours of venting to a girlfriend before the light goes on. Just tell her that you want to be there for her but you don't know what you can do to try to make her feel better. It sounded like this person had something covering their mouth. Before then, she celebrated her birthday on the 23rd of August this year had to sent a message to wish her, although I was around for ileya holiday as we both live in ibadan but am schooling in osun state.
But recently she spent a night with 2 guy friends at an over night camp thing at work. Why do i tell you to do all that? I don't want to be that clingy, annoying person. S i know for a fact that she s not talking to another guy or whatever. She ended up going off with this guy a week after she broke up with me and all my. It's okay to be in love but don't ever make it look like you'd die off without your partner The average human would want to exploit it to their advantage. Also she has admitted sleeping with someone else when she was pregnant with your child - were you 'between' relationships at this point? If she loses you now, she loses not only a boyfriend, but, a best friend. Okay, I've got sidetracked when over a friend's but 4am! I hate the fact that i cant be myself around her anymore and it hurts me that she feels this way about me for no reason.
I ask her to be honest with me, and she yells and says she is. Which is strange because she always wants to talk to me. There's no reason why you can't go, if its genuine. Pls I need your advice on how to go about this because it making me so sad. She says that it s really depressing her that she feels this way about me and is willing to do whatever it takes to work things out and get rid of this feeling. I do agree, I mean being that girl for a time, it's a downhill battle.
I gave her space that she wanted and then she suddenly broke up with me, I asked her why and she said it was because of some issues that she wasn't allowed to tell me. She sounds selfish and undeserving off your time and commitment. Make sure you talk to her face to face and not on a phone or text, I always find it important to look people in the eyes when you want the truth. Since you don't, they think you don't care about their feelings. Okay it's a cliche but it's also the right thing - by the sound of it, this woman completely controls the relationship which she chooses to walk out of and back into and it sounds like you're just playing catch-up with it all. It sounds like she's angry with you about something. I say I want to talk she says she is studying she is behaving weird why? When she's done with her normal girls forming, she will call you and then u should demand an explanation.
I think she's been cheating on you, maybe the girlfriend is her ex and gone to see the father fo the other child? Any advice on reasserting myself as the dominant figure in the relationship? To imagine you are a fresher in school dey vex me sef, you have so many things ahead of you in life yet you're so worked up on girl issue, I weak for you I swear. Your life will be better if you start doing that sex thing she wants. She isn't happy with the amount of time you spend together but neither are you if you give her space. Do you think that if you get frustrated by what is frustrating her and you do not give her the time to transition and settle, do you think she will be as open and trusting in the future? She used to call him all the time and love being around him. But trust me, there are more of her out there even way better. We are now, we have a kid together. She will eventually say that she isn't sure about your relationship and she dosen't know what to do.
So then, you let the line cross and now she wonders why you did that and now you are. So i have been dating this girl for about a month and today and yesterday suddenly she talked less then normal iknow she is on her period but i notice somethings when i was with her last time she had a dm from a guy who asked her to hangout its a old class mate and she said maybe he likes her and she knows that i saw that and asked if she was sirieus and she said that i didn't need to worry she just didn't want to hurt him also today suddenly she put out the comments on or picture on insta took away my name in her bio showing only a hearth and a lock she hid my account under some of her freinds tag and she was online for 3 hours and did not reply like i said she is on her period so I don't know of this is normal also sorry for my bad English No it's not normal it's suspicious behavior and I personally would ask her to see her phone when she's sitting beside you. Last night I asked her if everything is ok and if she needed to talk about anything and she said no, she's fine. Forcing your wants on her is not going to make her want you more, it will push her further away. That's gonna help with both things.
But never did those things, im pretty sure about that. If she has to go to her girlfriends house to give medicine, why don't you go too? Obviously weirded out I put my hand in my pocket and clinched on to my pocket knife for safety just in case anything went down. I have been dating this girl for 5 months we are both 25 years old and everything was going great until last week when she started acting weird around me when ever we were together. She sensed that, so she told you how she has an inkling of feeling for you. I think it's time to take a long hard look in the mirror at yourself and ask yourself what you want in life and what you're going to do about it.
The past couple of days she's been sending me one word texts for some reason. Now, nothing he said interested her anymore. I called on saturday to check on her but she inform me that she couldn't go out due to headache, the following day which was sunday I called her severally she didn't pick my call neither return all the messages I sent to her not until yesterday when she picked and told me that she intentionally not to pick my call because I wasn't caring enough for her. Basically most of my gf's social life is sketchy and whenever we're not comfortable towards each other I hear about some random guy for the first time consoling her. Community Guidelines: Read then Post! I hope she hasn't cheated on me, but if someone out there can gimme some feedback, I would appreciate it. You, as the man, should be on top of it.
If she wants things to go more quickly again, then you can talk to her about that. And by the way, I do not think she is acting this way because she found another guy. Always asking when we could hangout. Please take the time and read through them I think you feel better. Reassure her that you will always be there for her and will always love her. I haven't actually never cheated on her, never. This is pretty much the truth.