Just like you have a certain way that you prefer your dick to be sucked, every girl has her own personal preference for how she likes to be eaten out. What if that was Benedict Cumberbatch down there? Or why not go to a bookshop and buy a book about - you know: Birds and Bees-? For these girls it is best to use the delicate tip of your tongue with your eyes closed. If you're still worried, I'll leave you with this advice: Techniques aside, the most important thing to remember when you go down on someone is to do it with passion, curiosity, and the desire to please. It is a total lost cause and knowing that nothing is going to happen, you pull him up for some regular action. If you start there, everything else will follow. It's important to present your penis and his cohorts in the best light possible.
I thougt this guy must be about 16 or maybe younger. Also, make sure you're gentle when you touch and kiss her. And while some of us worry during the moment, others take a mental dive into heavy sarcasm and mentally rip apart our partner's tongue abilities. A woman's scent is important to us guys. The worst moment was going down on a female a shortly after they had been swimming in a chlorinated pool. I was a bit sheltered, personally.
Between your ohs and yeses, you start to wonder how on earth he got so darn good at this. It doesn't matter if our love is making all the right moves downstairs, if we are still upset about our sister dating that jack-butt from the club, there is no way we are going to be able to relax into the moment. With less fear and shame and stuff. I ended up in serious relationship during university, where my partner refused to give blow jobs. You will be able to taste her most intimate of juices.
When you know that she's hot and ready, you can slowly move yourself toward her sex. You should be moving painfully slow at this point. So, ok, things have cooled down a bit. Which is great, but sometimes it would also bum me out. Kissing her while using your tongue should be done as if taking a bite out of a peach; take it slow and use your lips entirely. My girlfriend at the time was extremely hairy.
This will make her much more relaxed and free to enjoy the experience with you. Just remember to be patient, sensitive, and get lots of practice. This have get her anticipating and desiring it even more, putting her into a more powerful state of arousal. But the slower that you move, the more she'll want you down there! I get self-conscious when he's down there. If she wants you to go faster she'll usually tell you. Especially when performed on a female, it is a lengthy, involved process, which requires a great deal of sensitivity.
Ask a male if he masturbates and he will probably tell your straight up that he does. I think sense is a big part of it: just having that stimuli, which you might get less of in sex. And as it is with a woman going down on a man, enthusiasm is key. And yet, sexual intercourse is genital-on-genital. Ive noticed little variations in taste, like if she's just gotten out of the shower.
You can expose her clit by using your fingers to separate her outer lips, and pulling back from above. Make the whole situation into a big production. But anything worth doing in the bedroom is worth doing well. I had no idea what it would look like or what to do with it besides jamming my tongue at it and hoping for the best. Does he need a textbook to figure this out? Knowing this, it is a smart idea to throw in a compliment about how nice her pussy looks while you are kissing her thighs. So you need to educate yourselfe.
Some old tricks are still great. Really, guys should never learn what goes on inside our minds when we are getting some downtown loving, but for us women we can all relate. I mean, crack is supposed to be wonderful! From one pussy to the next, every one of them looks different and unique. And one of the things that would help me come was eating pussy. I wasn't quite right about your age, but you seem to be still a teenager. A female reader, anonymous, writes 20 May 2007 : When I saw this question, I was wondering about your age.