She has very obscure music tastes from small bands so I felt in my gut that it was meant for her. Encouraging others to commit violence or illegal acts in revenge will result in an immediate ban. Would you really want to be with someone who could do something so terrible to you, on multiple occasions no less? Has anyone else gone through this? I'm not interested in hooking up with randoms, I like meaningful connections. We even went on a date and I was trying my hardest to get her to stay. This sub does not subscribe to the philosophy that infidelity is the fault of the Betrayed Spouse B.
And that I was weak and pathetic, and she wish that we would break up. I did not understand how she could cheat on you. When we came home, our flight landed around 8pm. I flipped and said some more nasty stuff. But you — you stupid selfish woman who broke him — still somehow have a hold on him. She started going out more by herself and stopped inviting me out. I was so freaking pissed the only thing I could do was wish death on him and disrespect him so much that I wanted him to feel how I felt so I lied about me receiving.
Some time away from her has given me some clarity and perspective. From then on there our relationship started. The day after we broke up, I saw that she had friended him again. This is far more important than your belief that she was cheating - and this behavior is more likely to be what caused the rift and distance between the two of you. I stopped drinking and she promised she wouldn't talk to him again and unfriended him on everything.
I saw that she had sent him our apartment address in a snap and that he was telling her that he loved her. She then went out to a concert by herself that same weekend and came home late again, which I didn't make a big deal out of it as I saw nothing wrong. I've never felt this depressed in all my life. I said some more nasty stuff and when she came home , we got into an argument. If they persist for longer than you're comfortable with, seek help for it. Don't let her hurt you even more. But are we ever really secure? Someone who could hurt you so badly? We both were cheated at the same night and the same place? If you would like to just read, please use the flair filters at the top of the page to help.
Infatuation, perhaps, but not love. A few months later, we took a two week trip to Mexico and I met her extended family. I feel that there may be forgivness in his heart. It ruined my relationship and i too think that we are destined to be together i just hope he can try and forgive me. About three weeks ago she went to her brothers birthday party at her parents and stopped replying to my messages.
I hate you so much for doing that to him and I hate you even more because I cannot be with the love of my life. Don't be fooled, she might look happy but probably not the happy that you know. I felt so bad and was sorry for you. Being not in a relationship would depress me so much. He will never ever be able to trust you again; there will be nothing more between you then the casual drink in the afternoon, or you guilting him into hanging with your new boyfriend. Well, he added me back and he was posting on his Snapchat. I guess it just pisses me off that her life can continue on as usual with a new guy and I'm the one who's left feeling terrible.
He just used you and threw you away. I've learned a lot from this relationship and don't ever want to repeat any of the mistakes I made. This is a safe place to give support and guidance to each other. Usually it is the more irresponsible ones that do this rather holding to any sort of morals. She went and an hour later I flipped out called her and told her if she didn't come back that I would break up with her.
Now, I fucked up multiple times after that and said some super mean nasty stuff to her during our arguments. I understand completely why you feel drawn to what is familiar. Yet, we need to make these sorts of promises. To begin with, I saw Clarissa kissing a Canadian guy. Make a long term plan to get her back but for now, let her enjoy her life until she realizes that she's missing you. I made a big deal out of it and we got into a big fight. I mean who would post on their Snapchat and they don't have friends.
I'm never gonna contact her again but it would atleast be nice to see some kind of justice. There's so much to say, I don't even where to start, but it seems you are attracting or feeling attracted to the wrong type of person. He deleted all my snap chatters but my streaks. At this point, I knew I had to break things up as I knew in her mind she had already made her choice up and if she had made contact with J again that she was most likely cheating. I'm glad you're still 17 and not in your late 20s, because this kind of behavior isn't normal.