Mariposa and Rachel, I am sticking to that plan as well. Or to try to get back in control… and then disappear. However I do wonder often if he will contact me……. On the 31st I got the news I recovered from my surgury. Because that is what your focus should be going forward.
Make him prove himself — through his actions. I just hope he will miss so much that he realizes that not being with me is not an option. Another sign that your ex boyfriend still loves you is if he is concerned about your present status. He seems to hate me right now. That does not make you a looser for in your sweet heart somewhere you found something redeemable about him and that makes you an amazing person. It is a loss, and grief is what you are feeling.
So, I suppose the real question here is, is it possible to get someone back if they exhibit this reaction? What is not to miss about a beautiful person such as yourself. I think my positive is that it made me realize that I am ready for something real and permanent. We got in a huge fight the worst one ever and we quit talking. I read for weeks tying to figure out how to turn this around. I hate to say this too but, you are so nice to her.
The only thing you can really do is be a man by moving on in the meantime. I hope it all works out for you, he's gotta be crazy to someone go that obviously cares so much about him. We talked, I gave him an option that if he wants space I can just give it to him. What type of woman does that to one another? So now I just laugh as this assclown. I was so hurt I called him and confronted him and he was sorry he tried to fix things but I wanted her to hear the lies he was telling me so I 3 wayed her and him and she heard everything. That's what I'm doing now, going out with friends and just enjoying the life that God gave me, and one day if you don't get back together your gonna find this amazing guy that shows you why it never worked out. You see if women do not wake up to this type of man they can have an entire life of nothing but heartbreak.
And last but not the least, if your ex calls you frequently, then they are definitely not ready to move on. It was that even if a woman has weak boundaries, this should show a man just how much he means to her, and any guy worth his salt would look at that with love and affection, and know that he was damn well lucky, cos believe it or not ladies men get hurt to and at times they feel like jacking the dating game, and that just because of a lack of boudaries does not mean he should take the preverbial. However, depending on how shady or egotistical he is, he might not feel the need to reach out, yet. I am now 46 very attractive and wanting to find my last relationship. For a start, obsessing and thinking about what they may or may not do are signs that you are not moving on. To avoid these fatal mistakes, you need proven steps to get your ex back and keep them.
Look, no one likes to be flat out ignored. He received exciting news recently, his divorced was finalized! I broke up with my last Saturday. So I guess the point is at least he texted back and cared enough to tell me that he was at work instead of ignoring me all together. Instead of concentrating on whether or not your ex has moved on, you should be concentrating on moving on yourself. I can say now that there was one major red flag and that was him telling me he was in love with me after dating 1. I have a huge amount of respect for him and that decision. They are all stubborn and that is good that she did not block you.
But I am now trying to get over him - he hurt me to much the last time I saw him. Honey, Thank you for that advice. Also, I'm probably reading too much into this but she only unfriended me on Fb, she didn't block me. I mean, some women will actually be a lot happier without you, no offense. I needed a flatmate, he needed a place to stay, he as breaking up with his long distance relationship. As women, it is our job to manage it.
Well he has contacted me, but if he really wants me back he has to do better than just sent some text messages. This is not the movies or a fairy tale! It generalizes and boxes people into categories. I tried to end it but he hung around and we dated on and off. Just do something together and have fun. And yes, my fault that I let it get to me. Gaynor: I did not mean it to be disrespectful. But at no point should we assume that instances of impulsive and vague messaging, or unrealistic compromise are anything other than the product of insecurity.