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Where a man might be open to having sex with 200 women, he may be open to actually dating three. But I will give you my opinion, which, not surprisingly, might challenge yours. If you are casually casting your pearls to handsome swine, the time has come to close the gate. You both may want to redefine sex, so you take away the pressure of your orgasm or his erections being the goal of all sexual experiences. He ended up staying over a couple of more nights, but we never slept together.
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